Family, Farm

Hygge

August 29, 2017

I can’t believe it’s almost September. It feels like summer flew by! I start another school year at PLU tomorrow, and can’t wait. We have a fun new cohort, and I get to teach them their first class – always a good time. If there’s anything I wish I’d known four years ago when I started here, it would be to trust that IT WILL GET EASIER. I thought I’d drown in my first year of teaching… I remember working 10-12 hour days every weekend trying to get my lesson plans ready. My goal was to stay two weeks ahead of the class! Now I’ve taught some classes 7 or 8 times, and others 4 times… it’s so much easier now that I’m tweaking the material I’ve already worked on for several years.

Aaron and I have been working hard on the RV over the last few weeks. We’ve been driving out to Buckley after work and putting in several hours before the sun goes down and we lose the light. We are only a few boards away from finishing the Pergo floors we put down after ripping out all the old carpet. It wasn’t until after we’d made quite a bit of headway that we realized the RV was constructed by nailing down all the fixtures on TOP of the carpet. So pulling it out with pliers, boxcutters, etc. was a task. We are thankful for my parents who came up and spent a long weekend helping us! We were also surprised at how long it’s taken us to put the flooring down… pretty much every board (with the exception of a select few down the center) has custom cuts. For reference, it’s taken us about 50-60 hours to do the flooring. But we’re seeing the light at the end of the tunnel now! The bathroom was also carpeted (ew!) and we’ll put down some white penny tile in there. Then I want to deep clean, maybe paint if we have any energy left, and then move in! I’m hoping we can do that and get the Tacoma house listed within a month. It will be so good to be out at the farm – I don’t think I’m going to mind being in the RV… I’m kind of looking forward to being a minimalist and having less to clean/maintain. Let’s see if I change my tune in 6 months. 🙂

Other happenings over the summer:

  • My mom and I got rear-ended in a pretty bad car accident that totaled my mom’s SUV. We were waiting to turn left and the driver in the truck behind us was distracted – he rammed in to us without any breaks at about 45 MPH. Thankfully, no one was hurt, although it was pretty scary.
  • My mom got diagnosed with shingles the same day we were in the car accident. It’s been really painful for her – she has chronic pain from the car accident that crushed her foot about 8 or so years ago, and she doesn’t complain about that – so I know when she says she’s hurting, she’s really hurting. She’s on Neurontin now, and says that’s made a lot of difference. We are praying for a quick recovery.
  • Aaron and I watched the eclipse from the farm. We were in about the 98% zone, and it was so fun to see if get dark enough that the outside lights came on.
  • We found an amazing heritage blueberry bush on the farm that is still producing delicious little berries, even without any maintain for the last 10+ years!
  • Today we came back from a great long weekend in Sunriver with my parents, Casey and Jenn, and Jenn’s parents George and Becky. Casey and Jenn are thinking of moving to Bend area, and we had fun driving around and looking at property with them, visiting Sparks Lake, throwing the ball way out into the water for the pups (my parents brought Sadie too), having peaches and ice cream, and staying up late playing Balderdash.

I’m so excited for fall. The hot weather here has me down! PLU is very connected to it’s Scandinavian Lutheran heritage, and one of the things they celebrate is “hygge” – trounced “hoo-gah.” It’s a Danish word that means “cozy,” “connected,” “content,” etc. There are 10 principles to hygge:

  1. Atmosphere – turn down the lights, use candles and lamps, etc.
  2. Be here now – turn off your phone.
  3. Pleasure – bake cookies, have a piece of chocolate, etc.
  4. “We over me” – share the tasks and air time.
  5. Gratitude – take joy in daily life.
  6. Harmony – no need to brag, it’s not a competition.
  7. Comfort – put on sweatpants, curl up in a quilt.
  8. Truce – strive for peace and no drama.
  9. Togetherness – build close relationships and narratives. “Do you remember the time we…?”
  10. Shelter – this is your tribe and place of safety.

Isn’t that a good manifesto for the end of 2017?

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4 Comments

  • Reply Greta August 30, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    Wow! What a beautiful transformation on those floors. I had no idea you and your mom were in such a bad accident. So scary! And so terrible about the shingles. Can’t wait to see the finished RV. Prayers that your hard work is soon finished and you move out to the farm forever!!!!!!!

    • Reply Lindsey Lawson September 4, 2017 at 1:33 pm

      Thanks Grets!

  • Reply Linda and Reed September 3, 2017 at 2:21 pm

    Hugged sounds like a goal for daily life! 😃

  • Reply Linda and Reed September 3, 2017 at 2:23 pm

    Why do computers change things!!! Hygge

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